Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Infidelity
Emily & Johnny Spigelmire | Christian Marriage Recovery Coaches|176 - 175 | Experience, Strength, and Hope After Porn-Fueled Infidelity: Johnny’s 12th Step Presentation
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Dear Betrayed,
Are you in shock? Confused, devastated, hurt, angry and feeling like you are not enough? Do you feel like it must be your fault, like you should have somehow seen the signs? Are you grieving the death of the marriage you thought you had?
Dear Betrayer,
Have you been believing the lie that if people knew what was really in your heart and mind, they would turn their back on you? Have you been convinced that your wife and family would leave you and you would lose everything if/when you came clean?
Beloved, do you both feel like your marriage is over?
Well, you’re right. That marriage full of secrets and lies IS over. But now there is hope for an honest and transparent marriage - one full of trust, safety, connection, forgiveness, acceptance, and intimacy that you’ve never known before. Bold statement, right? You may be thinking, “No way!” That’s okay. We understand…
Hi, we are Johnny and Emily Spigelmire and we have been where you are...
As a result of adultery fueled by pornography, the marriage vows we had exchanged as starry-eyed newlyweds and had worked so hard to keep were eventually shattered. We’ve been through hell and back. But we are here, together, to let you know that this devastation we experienced was actually a gift.
Of course, we didn’t see it that way at first and you probably don’t either. But, through a commitment to recovery, our faith in God, and our hope for redemption, we set out on a journey of healing, and we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned with you. We now have a marriage that continually blows our minds, and we give God all the glory!
So, if you’re ready to move from heartbreak and pain to hope and healing, grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and join us on a journey of faith as we talk through difficult questions like;
Is there hope for our marriage? Can I fix all the damage I’ve done? Can I ever trust again? Is true intimacy even possible?
We will also do deep dives into the topics of: * Isolation * Guilt and Shame * Anger * Rejection * Addiction * Trauma * Body Image * Triggers * Communication * And more…
Our story, like yours, is a messy one. But, with God’s help, it is possible to recover what was lost, stolen, or given away. We know this because God has turned the ashes of our lives into something beautiful and we believe he can do that for you too.
You can connect with us at: support@beyondbrokenvows.com https://insider.beyondbrokenvows.com/ https://coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com/
We would love to be part of your journey to healing and wholeness!
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Published14 Sep 2026
Duration50:18
Episodes
176-
175 | Experience, Strength, and Hope After Porn-Fueled Infidelity: Johnny’s 12th Step Presentation
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14 Sep 2026
175-
174 | Why Double Standards Become Necessary While Recovering From Infidelity
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07 Sep 2026
174-
173 | From Manager to Ally: Finding True Safety Without Policing His Healing
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31 Aug 2026
173-
172 | Porn Addiction Recovery: What's Beyond Working the Steps?
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24 Aug 2026
172-
171 | Rupture and Repair in Your Marriage Beyond Sexual Betrayal
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17 Aug 2026
171-
170 | On Common Ground with Intimate Betrayal: Our Summer Stories of Hope Series Wrap Up
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10 Aug 2026
170-
169 | Summer Stories of Hope: Betrayed Again! Is She Enough? with Emily
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03 Aug 2026
169-
168 | Summer Stories of Hope: When Decades of Secrets Escalate to an Affair, with Tricia
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27 Jul 2026
168-
167 | Summer Stories of Hope: Betrayal from the Beginning, with Heidi
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20 Jul 2026
167-
166 | Summer Stories of Hope: Beyond Extortion and Trickle Truth, with R.D.
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13 Jul 2026
166-
165 | Summer Stories of Hope: Healing From Sexual Betrayal and Relapse, with Suzanne
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06 Jul 2026
165-
164 | Summer Stories of Hope: Discovering True Intimacy After Infidelity, with Jacob and Leah
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29 Jun 2026
164-
163 | Summer Stories of Hope: Beyond Porn-Fueled Infidelity, with Felicia
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22 Jun 2026
163-
162 | Summer Stories of Hope: From Isolation to Connection, with Kevin
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15 Jun 2026
162-
161 | Summer Stories of Hope: Beyond Sexual Secrets, with Aimee
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08 Jun 2026
161-
160 | 3 Years of Helping Couples Move From Sexual Betrayal to True Intimacy
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01 Jun 2026
160-
159 | Soul Ties: Still Carrying a Piece of Your Past?
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25 May 2026
159-
158 | Beyond the Wall of Isolation: They Know Too Much! (Making it Right)
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18 May 2026
158-
157 | Beyond the Wall of Isolation: Fears of the Parents (Telling the Kids)
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11 May 2026
157-
156 | Beyond the Wall of Isolation: Fears of the Wife (The Burden)
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04 May 2026
156-
155 | Beyond the Wall of Isolation: Fears of the Husband (The Mask)
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27 Apr 2026
155-
154 | Beyond the Wall of Isolation (Series Intro)
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20 Apr 2026
154-
153 | The Objectification Trap: Is "Looking" a Gateway Drug?
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13 Apr 2026
153-
152 | He Exposed Me! God's Plan for My Freedom from Porn
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06 Apr 2026
152-
151 | Resurrection Life for Your Marriage
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30 Mar 2026
151-
150 | Are You Weaponizing the Bible in Recovery from Infidelity?
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23 Mar 2026
150-
149 | 4 Ways To Go The Extra Mile When Recovering From Sexual Betrayal
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16 Mar 2026
149-
148 | Are You Helping or Hindering Your Wife's Betrayal Trauma Recovery?
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09 Mar 2026
148-
147 | Did You Ever Really Love Me? Facing the Heartache of Sexual Betrayal
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02 Mar 2026
147-
146 | Hit the PAUSE Button for Triggers After Sexual Betrayal
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23 Feb 2026
146-
145 | From Sex-Addiction to Addiction Whack-a-Mole
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16 Feb 2026
145-
144 | Post Disclosure Revelation: Setback or Breakthrough?
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09 Feb 2026
144-
143 | After Disclosure: He Feels Better, She Feels Worse
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02 Feb 2026
143-
142 | Level Up Your Honesty After Sexual Betrayal
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26 Jan 2026
142-
141 | Infidelity Disclosure: How Much Do I Need to Know?
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19 Jan 2026
141-
140 | How Well Do You Really Know Your Spouse When Infidelity Becomes Your Reality
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12 Jan 2026
140-
139 | We Plan - God Purposes: Vision Casting with a Rearview Mirror
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05 Jan 2026
139-
138 | Let Jesus Shine His Light on Your Path to Recovery from Infidelity
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29 Dec 2025
138-
137 | A Christmas Message of Hope for Hurting Spouses
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22 Dec 2025
137-
136 | Stuck in a Rut: 6 Traps that Hinder Recovery for an Unfaithful Husband
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15 Dec 2025
136-
135 | Stuck in the Wound: 4 Traps That Hinder Healing For a Betrayed Wife
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08 Dec 2025
135-
134 | Emotionally Ready for Sex? 4 Steps to Healthy Sexuality for Husbands After Sexual Betrayal
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01 Dec 2025
134-
133 | Infidelity is a Turkey - Here's 6 Reasons to Give Thanks Anyway
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24 Nov 2025
133-
132 | 12 Markers of a Trustworthy Husband (Markers 10, 11, and 12)
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17 Nov 2025
132-
131 | Our Navy Days Love Story and a Salute to Veterans
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10 Nov 2025
131-
130 | 12 Markers of a Trustworthy Husband (Markers 7, 8, and 9)
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03 Nov 2025
130-
129 | 12 Markers of a Trustworthy Husband (Markers 4, 5, and 6)
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27 Oct 2025
129-
128 | 12 Markers of a Trustworthy Husband (Markers 1, 2, and 3)
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20 Oct 2025
128-
127 | 12 Markers of a Trustworthy Husband (Series Intro)
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13 Oct 2025
127-
126 | Forgiving Yourself After Betraying Your Wife