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For this Bumpie Group Chat, we get together for some mixed vibes before the upcoming podcast break. For our last recording for the next fortnight, we chat about… Sophie is off to Japan! The podcast is off for the school holidays, from 30 Sept - 13th October Jayde has some observations on her mental health The 3 stages of her mental health cycle Why is there a gap in fun tween clothing!? Bumpies sent in their hilarious tech fails The following services offer mental health support: PANDA Beyond Blue Gidget Foundation LifeLine: 131114 Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@jaydecouldwell) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group Sign up to our monthly newsletter here for BTS, recommendations, outfits and more. If you’d love to partner with the podcast, send us an episode idea or find out more, you can over here. We couldn’t do this without you, Bumpies. If you’re liking what you’re…

For this Bumpies on Board episode, we speak with Jackie, mum of two and breast cancer survivor. After hearing her story at the Bonds Village Walk event in Melbourne, we asked her to share with Bumpies - it’s inspiring, raw and a real reminder of how important a village can be. We discuss… Jackie’s positive postpartum during lockdowns Reevaluating career goals after children Discovering breast cancer at 16 months postpartum Her journey with chemo, radiation, a double mastectomy and recovery Health anxiety after cancer Trying to conceive after cancer - IVF and egg donation The inspiring dedication of her village Pregnancy after loss and the miracle baby she hadn’t seen coming Jackie’s tips for dealing with a health diagnosis How to support a friend with cancer Links mentioned: See Jackie’s eco + plastic-free stationery brand at consciousmae.com.au Follow Jackie on Insta @consciousmae This episode is proudly sponsored by tonies® - the world's leading screen-free audio platform for kids. Stories, songs, games…

We’ve teamed up once again with parenting educator, Gen Muir, to discuss boundaries. Is it a buzz word or are they vital for our parenting? We discuss… The #1 question to ask yourself around boundaries How societies views on parenting has changed over the decades When boundaries can be flexible Explaining and scaffolding the boundary Disappointment and resilience Executive dysfunction and boundaries Healthy boundaries teach relationship skills How do we ACTUALLY set a boundary? The discomfort of sadness The importance of modelling limits Links mentioned: Get Gen’s latest book, Why Kids Need Boundaries here This episode is proudly sponsored by ergoPouch and their Organic Bedding range. Head to ergopouch.com.au and use the code BTB20 for 20% off sitewide until 13th October. Exclusions apply. Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group…

We talk a lot about emotional regulation, mindfulness and play, but it can be hard finding ways to actually DO these in our busy lives. Enter art therapy. For kids and adults alike, we speak to registered art therapist and mum of two, Alex Lederman, to learn more. We discuss… Alex’s experience with art and art therapy What is involved in art therapy? The process (not the outcome) of creating Do you have to be good at art? What happens if a child creates dark or worrying art? Embracing creativity for yourself What can we create at home with our kids to connect? How can we encourage our kids to get into art? How art therapy has shaped Alex’s motherhood Links mentioned: Follow Alex on Instagram @alexledermanarttherapy Head to Alex’s website for more information or upcoming parent workshops at alexandralederman.com Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the Bump…

Perimenopause. It seems to have boomed in awareness and for good reason. To find out more we speak to Dr Fatima Khan about everything from PMDD, symptoms of perimenopause, when it starts and how we address it (and also how is this fair!?!) As a leading perimenopause and menopause doctor, Dr Fatima combines a holistic approach with clinical expertise to offer treatments that support mental, physical, and emotional wellbeing. We ask her… What is PMDD? Is ADHD and PMDD connected? How hormones impact mental health What is perimenopause and when does it start? The symptoms of perimenopause How the shifting age of parenthood has compounded perimenopause Patriarchy and perimenopause - why it isn’t a good mix If you think you’re in perimenopause, what do we do? What is HRT? Did you know the most common symptom of menopause is joint pain How trauma impacts menopause (and vice versa) Reframing women’s health You can find Dr Fatima Khan's book Hormone Health is Mental Health here. In an emergency, call one of the…

Ever felt contradicted by how much you can both love motherhood yet find it SO tough, all at the same time? That combination of what seems like opposite feelings is called maternal ambivalence. To learn more, we speak to Dr. Margo Lowy PhD, a psychotherapist and researcher. She has written her latest book, Maternal Ambivalence: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood, and we are desperate to learn more. We discuss… What actually is maternal ambivalence? The paradox of feelings in motherhood Those ‘melting moments’ in parenting The slow ‘letting go’ of being a parent Naming the wins and reflecting on the guilt and rage Explaining maternal ambivalence through a handbag analogy What would you go back in time and tell yourself as a mother? Bringing the fun and playfulness into parenting Links mentioned: Get the book Maternal Ambivalence: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood Dr Margo’s website Follow Dr Margo on Facebook Follow Dr Margo on Instagram This episode is proudly sponsored by Bonds.…

For this episode of our Newborn Mini Series, The First 365, we speak to Sarah Percy, Women’s Health Physiotherapist and director of Female Physio Co. We ask what are the TOP 5 things all new parents should know about women’s health physiotherapy when postpartum (and beyond!) Sarah gives us evidence, reassurance and tips to care for ourselves after carrying and birthing babies. We discuss… Bladder leakage and urinary incontinence Breaking taboo and seeking solutions to women’s health issues The myth of the 6 Week Check The benefits of early movement when postpartum Sex and intimacy after having babies What is prolapse and reframing prolapse Is a prolapse diagnosis forever? Mental challenges after birth trauma Learning your own body and limits Should ab separation be fully closed? Disclaimer: the advice given in this episode is general in nature - if you have any concerns, please see a Women's Health physio. Links mentioned: Follow Sarah on Instagram Book an appointment with Female Physio Co This episode and…

From reading a viral Dr Becky poem on the podcast to now, we are so excited to be speaking to Dr Becky Kennedy, founder of Good Inside and clinical psychologist. She is a mum of 3, author, podcast host and renowned ‘millennial parenting whisperer’ who specialises in parenting and relationships, deeply feeling children, boundary-setting and emotional connection. We discuss… Deeply feeling kids and the safety of familiar movies Leaning into the reality of postpartum Changing relationship dynamics after having a baby What discussions can we have with our partner before having kids? Relationship needs and how they can change Spontaneity in your relationship Having the “most generous interpretation” Deeply Feeling Kids and different temperaments Links mentioned: See Sophie read Dr Becky’s poem about Covid kids starting school Follow @drbeckyatgoodinside Follow @goodinsidebaby See the podcast, Good Inside at Dr Becky This episode is proudly sponsored by Bonds. Join us at The Village Walk, a free morning event for…

For this episode of our Newborn Mini Series, The First 365, we speak to Hailey O’Neill, paediatric doctor, to ask what are the TOP 5 things all new parents should know about paediatric health and wellbeing in the first year of life. With experience in developmental and general paediatrics, paediatric emergency medicine and neonatal intensive care, Hailey offers us information, reassurance and tips to care for our new family’s wellbeing. We discuss… The importance of maternal mental health for the whole family’s wellbeing Building a village and network of support for postpartum Mother’s Groups and having other mums on your team Safe sleep and co-sleeping… without the fear! Mistaking normal infant behaviour for a medical problem Crying, colic, vomit and reflux No one has the perfect baby There is no such thing as bad habits What actually matters developmentally and what is a red flag? What are common baby illnesses and what are red flags? Links mentioned: Red Nose Safer Co-sleeping guide Raising Children…

For this episode, we DO have time for a big chat with Kate Reeves AKA Revz, co-host of the podcast We Don’t Have Time For This. We catch up on life in general and ask how love, divorce and dating as a mum of two is going for her. We discuss.. Raising a tween son as a single mum Parenting tween sons vs tween daughters Theatre kids and the We Don’t Have Time For This live show extravaganzas Going through a divorce at 36 when you have children The legality of divorce and reality of co-parenting What is dating like when you have kids? Dating younger men, older men, all the men! What are the differences? How do you know if they’re The One? How Revz met her partner Long distance relationships Does everyone have a One or can this love come around more than once? Links mentioned: Follow Revz here Find tickets for the We Don't Have Time For This live show here Check out We Don’t Have Time For This This episode is proudly sponsored by Go-To and their Very Luxe Face Cream. New customers or those that haven't purchased…

For this Bumpie Group Chat, we agree there is never a right time to see an unsolicited p*nis, wonder if our dance moves are daggy and ask how Sophie ended up in the algorithm of stale, pale white males. We discuss… Sophie said yes to an impromptu primary school disco The Mum Jig - are we daggy dancers now? The rollercoaster of teenagers (and a sneaky TikTok) Sophie ended up on the gross side of the algorithm Dumb phones and technology disconnect Sexualisation in music videos and explaining it to kids Your kids see an inappropriate scene when you’re watching a movie - what do you do? Gasbagging, teabagging - same, same? This episode is proudly sponsored by Bonds. Check out their Wonder Sleep sleeping bags at bonds.com.au or in-store now! Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group Sign up to our monthly newsletter here for BTS,…

For this episode of our Newborn Mini Series, The First 365, we speak to Renee Jennings, a dietitian, mum of two and women’s health nutrition expert, to ask what are the TOP 5 things all new parents should know about postpartum nutrition. Renee cuts through the noise of the nutrition world to give us research-backed, bite-sized (pun intended) facts and tips for newborn mums. We discuss… Focusing on eating enough rather than eating ‘perfectly’ The huge nutrient requirements needed to heal and nurture our bodies and babies Easy ideas for nutritious snacks and ways to boost nutrients in meals Postpartum is not the season for weightloss Does breastfeeding make you lose weight? The importance of supplements when you’re postpartum Postpartum depletion How do you know if you are depleted? Ask for help if you’re not feeling well Moving from deficient to within range to optimal Is protein over-hyped? The power of fibre Links mentioned: Get Renee’s book, Nurture the Seed Book a consultation with Renee here This episode…

Boarding school might seem like a mysterious schooling option - maybe you wondered about it, fantasised about it or your parents threatened you with it! We speak to the hilarious and wise Amanda Ferrari who shares her journey marrying into a farming family, raising children in rural Australia and her family’s boarding school experience. Through her work with The Boarding School Collective, she is breaking down barriers and connecting schools with families. In this fantastic chat, we discuss… How Amanda ended up in a rural town married to a farmer From friends with benefits to an unexpected pregnancy Premature labour, solitary confinement and giving birth to twins alone Being married to a farmer who is wedded to the land Finding small glimmers in the depths of depression Why do people choose boarding schools? The grief and emotion in sending children to boarding school The Boarding School Collective connects schools with families to educate and familiarise families who have a lot of questions “It’s okay to…

After a few failed recording attempts, we are back on the mic and catching up on where we are at. We are both feeling a bit stretched but we know you’re in it with us, Bumpies. To lighten the mood, we laugh about the dumb sh*t we did as teenagers… and how we will definitely not be letting our kids do the same! We’re chatting… How Pearl’s second week of drop offs has been hard Jayde takes back what she said - parenting teens is A LOT “Leaning on in to tap the eff out” How negative feedback can take a toll on your mindset When you’re doing so much but feel like like none of it is good enough When are we spending time with our partner!? Sophie is petitioning for 5am dates What type of teenager were you? “I’m a cool mom!” Buying drinks and boy sleepovers Sharing our crazy teenage memories, plus stories Bumpies sent in Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the…

For this episode of our Newborn Mini Series, The First 365, we speak to Nicole Pates, paediatric physiotherapist, to ask what are the TOP 5 things all new parents should know about physical milestones in the first year of life. With over 15 years as a physio plus lived experience as a mum, Nicole provides information, reassurance and tips that help cut through all the noise and ‘shoulds’. We discuss… Every baby is totally unique Milestone expectations are spread across a large time period, not a set date Early intervention leads to better outcomes Crawling, bum-shuffling and the wide variety of physical skills Do walkers and jumpers actually help babies learn to walk? Should babies show a dominant hand? The noise around “shoulds” of milestones Play! The importance of play Temperament, security and exploring learning opportunities Plastic toys vs wooden toys - is one better than the other? Connection before correction Links mentioned: Learn more with Nicole at NicoleKidsPhysio.com Get Nicole’s book,…

*This episode contains mention of child sexual abuse, so please consider whether this episode is right for you at this time. See the list below for linked support services or head to ChildSafety.gov.au for more.* Teaching our children about body safety is proven to help prevent sexual abuse and open up communication with our kids. For our second episode in partnership with One Talk at a Time, we dive into a heavy topic but one that is so vital to empower and protect our children. We speak with Jayneen Sanders (aka Jay Dale) to give us some practical strategies and how we can teach the 5 Body Safety Rules. An author, teacher, mum of 3 and an advocate for Body Safety Education, Jayneed provides us with reassurance and practical advice from the perspective of a parent and educator. We discuss… When do we start teaching body safety? How to weave body safety language and rules into your parenting from birth The 5 Body Safety Rules The power of modelling consent and body boundaries Getting comfortable with…

When one of is up, the other is usually down and that is the case for this Bumpie Group Chat. Jayde has had a string of bad news whereas Sophie has had a childcare win. So why did we end up in an on-air fight!? Keeping it real, as always. We chat… Jayde has a bat infestation and a bunch of bad news When you think trusting your child is enough… navigating bullying from a different perspective Teens, phones and the internet Pearl starts kindy and Sophie reflects on Pearl’s care journey so far What are the top 5 things worth their money as mums of 3? What are the top 5 things NOT worth their money as mums of 3? This one gets controversial Was it just us or was Toy Story 5 a bit… shamey? Sophie’s doing 30 Days of No Fashion Spending and Jayde is starting to sell her wardrobe. So why do we fight about it? This episode is proudly sponsored by Face Hero by Go-To, the face oil we always come back to. New customers or those that haven’t purchased within the last 12 months get 20% off orders over $85 at…

Welcome to The First 365, a Newborn Mini Series brought to you by Beyond the Bump in partnership with Bonds. We are kicking it off by speaking with Clare, an IBCLC, endorsed midwife, mum of three and the face behind The Womb Rooms. We ask Clare what are the top five things we should all know about breastfeeding, lactation and feeding your baby. We discuss… The basic physiology behind breastfeeding Supply and demand (and how that can look) How frequently should we remove milk from the breast? Does breast or nipple size impact feeding? Antenatal expressing Should breastfeeding ever be painful? Afterbirth pain and breastfeeding Babies don’t just feed because they are hungry… and that is normal Why feeding schedules don’t cater to every baby It doesn’t matter how you feed them, it is how you respond to them Soft breasts doesn’t mean no milk Engorgement and supply regulation Breastfeeding support in the first 6 months Tips for a good latch The importance of postpartum support to safekeep breastfeeding Guilt…

Burnout is a term that gets thrown around a lot and Stacie Skehan, Emotional Intelligence Educator, knows it all too well. A mum of 3, navigating two divorces and chasing a string of career accolades, it wasn’t until total burnout forced her to stop and she had to feel what she had been suppressing for decades. Stacie shares her motherhood journey, relationships realisations and gives us a deep insight into how feeling, not fixing, is what is needed for ourselves and in turn, our children. We discuss… Stacie’s surprise pregnancy and tough postpartum When infidelity and drugs emerged in her first marriage Why learning to listen to your instincts is important The post divorce glow-up Meeting her second husband (and finding the opposite of her ex) Navigating consecutive miscarriages in remote Australia Irish twins! Getting pregnant at 3 months postpartum Giving and receiving love via achievements and productivity Burnout - ignoring the warning signs and suppressing your emotions When you can’t rest unless…

After a little break from recording, we are back for this episode of the Bumpie Group Chat. You think we wouldn’t have that much to talk about but of course, we find plenty to discuss! School holidays makes Sophie want to homeschool A ‘school holiday activity menu’ saved the mental load AND made local activities feel like a holiday How underrated are the drive-in cinemas!? Jayde’s Bali trip with friends ticked all the boxes for her and the girls Do things sometimes run smoother when your partner isn’t there? Jayde’s Bali itinerary recommendations Sophie’s present cupboard fail! Bumpies awkward neighbour stories - these are just too far! Does sleeping in separate beds ruin your marriage? This episode is proudly sponsored by tonies. Bluey is now on tonies with the Bluey Tonieplay game, available at tonies.com.au and selected retailers. Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok…

Have you heard of congenital CMV? Many haven’t, including Stephanie Briggs, who learned of it for the first time while simultaneously experiencing the most devastating moment of her family’s life. Steph lost her second daughter, Charlotte Hope - or Charlie - as a result of CMV at 35 weeks gestation. Now the founder of The Hope Initiative for CMV, a charity created to raise awareness of this common but unknown virus, Steph shares her motherhood journey and the legacy of Charlie. In this raw yet eye-opening conversation, we discuss… Steph’s trouble with ovulation and journey to conceiving her first daughter Her second pregnancy juggling appendicitis, placenta previa, constant flu and nausea Getting the medical news no parent wants to hear and the limbo that follows How do you cope with hearing your unborn baby won’t survive? Cytomegalovirus (CMV) - what is it? Giving birth (and grieving) when you know your baby has passed away The unexpected logistics of a stillborn baby Explaining to their toddler that her…

It’s been a long time since we put the call out for an Ask Us Anything style Q&A and luckily for our egos, Bumpies delivered with a huge range of interesting, juicy and curious questions! We jumped straight into… How is Sophie going with her pursuit for a hobby? Our screen time keeps sneaking up and we have mixed feelings Am I The Asshole if I won’t let my neighbour borrow my chairs!? Aging is feeling confronting, but do we have to ‘fix’ it? Our thoughts on Botox and Jayde’s journey with injectables Should we ever *convince* our partner to have more kids? Gender disappointment vs gender disconnect and how it is becoming more obvious as Jayde’s girls grow We share our experiences with alcohol and sobriety - from boundaries to numbing emotions to role-modelling to our children, this one was complicated What are simple ways we can enjoy motherhood more? Mum or Chief Facilitator? The mental load of family time How do you handle your friends' parenting differently to you? This episode is proudly sponsored by…

We decided it was time to level up our money smarts and asked financial educator, Mel Browne, to come and share five things she wanted all women to know about finance. An award-winning ex-accountant and ex-financial advisor who rebuilt her financial life from the ground up, Mel shares practical tips* and expert knowledge in a way that makes sense. She dives into… Super splitting if your super takes a hit from career pauses Future proofing for finance when you’re in a relationship Women over 55 are the most at risk of homelessness Research shows women are better investors Having a voice in your home’s finances Reflecting on your personal Money Story Investing 101: where do we start? Small ways to get extra cash Credit cards and Afterpay - rejecting overspending Dopamine spending Smart debt, mortgages and offset accounts Investing for our children Links mentioned: 90 minute Share Investing Masterclass here Compare 7 Investing apps here This episode is proudly sponsored by iL Tutto and their brand new Bundle…

Bumpies, if you haven’t noticed yet, this is our first video recording of the Bumpie Group Chat (Spotify and Youtube)! Now you can grab a cuppa and watch along… if your kids give you a moment's peace, of course. Whether you’re watching or listening, today we dive into… We have rebranded! A huge and exciting week for Beyond the Bump You’re always Yummy Mummies in our eyes Sophie is struggling to let herself sit with imposter syndrome Jayde’s reminder to take up space and be proud of hard work Do we constantly downplay our efforts and achievements as mums in paid work? Jayde shares her experience with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) Can we all just celebrate our wins!? When your kids start to grasp the concept of death The disappointment of knowing you can’t fix your child’s feelings Seeking help is always a good thing This episode is proudly sponsored by Face Hero by Go-To, the face oil we always come back to. New customers or those that haven’t purchased within the last 12 months get 20% off orders…

**This episode discusses child sexual abuse. Please listen with care and reach out to a support service if you need to speak to someone. Visit ChildSafety.gov.au/Get-Support for a list of services.** We speak to Alison Geale, CEO of Bravehearts, who works to provide a holistic approach to the prevention and treatment of child sexual abuse. This is a big but important topic and we’ve gathered your top questions to help educate us on having personal safety conversations with our kids. We discuss… What are age-appropriate discussions to have regarding personal safety? Bringing up big topics if you’re feeling awkward Moving beyond ‘stranger danger’ Identifying the red flags of grooming The importance of asking our kids questions as conversation starters What to do if children disclose a safety concern with you “It might feel bad, it might feel good but it’s not right” - explaining physical responses to abuse How can we give our kids a safe childhood with these worries in mind? Sharing your child safety…

We dive straight into a short and sweet Bumpie Group Chat today as surprisingly, both of us had great weeks! As we crawl out of some mild parenting trenches, we remind ourselves of the importance of help, making time for ourselves and remembering that we are doing a damn good job! We yap about… Does anything replace the help you get from a supportive family? Parenting away from a village Don’t compare yourself to others parenting journeys Sophie’s 3 year old is sleeping better and life is looking up The sleep advice Sophie is implementing Jayde’s made new progress in helping Yumi with emotional regulation The importance of parent’s nightly decompression session Our rebrand launches next week! School holidays are incoming are we are crawling to the finish line Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group Sign up to our monthly…

For this episode of Bumpies on Board, Hanna, an American Bumpie, shares with us her raw and vulnerable battle with addiction. A disease that is not often spoken about, addiction was part of her life from childhood. Hanna gives us an honest insight into the good, the bad and the ugly that she has experienced in both her addiction battle and her decade of sobriety, now as a mum of two. She shares… How watching her parents own addiction and mental health struggles formed the blueprint for Hanna’s substance issues When throwing out drugs switched to trying them The indescribably strong pull of addiction A pregnancy scare and abusive relationship became the first realisation that her life was passing her by Why did she push her loved ones away? The dream of her own family became the catalyst to seek help Finding the 12 step program that provided the support she needed to get sober The stigma around addiction Recovery as a continual process What steps helped Hanna begin to recover from addiction? The physical…

Even after spending a big few days in Sydney together, we still find plenty to discuss. Jayde took an early flight home to drive straight to couples therapy and gives us an update… Firstly, we clear up the Nick/Harry confusion After a vulnerable breakdown a few weeks ago, therapy has given Jayde and Harry more tools to forge a better path forwards Sophie would people-please a therapist into getting an A+ if she could Jayde’s itchy legs spiraled into scabies, bed bugs and perimenopause and Sophie is sending her straight to the GP Should we push harder when it comes to our health symptoms? Jayde’s symptoms that tick the box for perimenopause Mia is 13. Jayde shares how she feels on now being a mum to a teenager Sophie needs advice on her toddler’s sleep… This episode is brought to you by WaterWipes™, the only baby wipes certified skin microbiome friendly by MyMicrobiome. Get yours at Coles or head to waterwipes.com Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come…

We’ll admit it. We don’t love playing with the kids. So we asked Nicole, a paediatric physiotherapist from @nicole_kidsphysio to come and give us the insight on play and making it work for your family. We discuss… When you don’t love playing with your kids Guilt, screens and connection Engagement vs imaginative play Finding the ‘play’ style that works for you Bossy play and how to navigate it Behind every behaviour is a communication How long do you need to play for? Does independent play even exist!? Tips for scaffolding independent play Sensory play tips and tricks Navigating risky play, safety and consequence Building confidence in risk averse kids The importance of play for YOU This episode is proudly sponsored by Babybee. Discover the brand new Alto pram and explore the full Babybee range at babybeeonline.com Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the…

It’s been a big week of technology fails, Jayde’s crying going viral and as always, our youngest children are keeping us so, so humble. We dive into… Sophie chats parental preference. It’s a lose-lose scenario Jayde’s becoming a 90s parent and it was the ice-cream that tipped her over the edge Covid Babies are on their way to finishing pre-school and this quote from Dr Becky is taking us back Jayde crying went viral… but how is she doing? The traffic light system for nervous system regulation Does music set the tone of the house or overstimulate you? Girl’s trip savings accounts - yay or nay? This episode is proudly sponsored by Bonds — check out their brand new Wondergrow range at bonds.com.au or in-store now! Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group Sign up to our monthly newsletter here for BTS, recommendations, outfits and…

Last time we spoke to Leila from Village for Mama, she surprised us with a pregnancy announcement… little did she know that it would be her second set of twins! Today, she dives into life with 5 kids, pregnancy, birth, a supported postpartum and juggling multiple multiples! We chat about… How the 20-week scan revealed Leila’s second set of twins and shocked everyone The different decision making process for round 2 Finding and selecting a live in au pair The beauty of a larger age gap between siblings Guilt around your relationship with your older children when a new baby is born Leila’s birth story with the second set of twins… in two states… on Christmas Day! The importance of temperament What Leila set up to help support her going into a slow postpartum with 5 kids Maternity leave policies for multiples (they’re not great) Her idea to create a village and helping hand for those who needed it Is Leila’s family complete? This episode is brought to you by WaterWipes™, the only baby wipes certified skin…

This is an emotional episode of the Bumpie Group Chat and we’re feeling it. Jayde isn’t in a great place right now and she shares the weight of it all. Sophie wanted her feelings back and is now asking if you should be careful what you wish for. We dive into… Jayde has a heavy and vulnerable share. Life isn’t in a good place and family life feels hard Parenting a teen is like postpartum Does the ‘village’ drop off after kids start school? Sophie has been on the verge of tears non-stop since the IUD came out and it led to a panic attack A guy posting his own thirst trap - confident or ick? Rude or Fabulous? 3 grown men order a juice box Am I The Asshole? When you plan your child’s birthday party and your husband comes in last minute with plans Communication and validation for the win This episode is proudly sponsored by Babybee. Discover the brand new Alto pram and explore the full Babybee range at babybeeonline.com Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce)…

Can we move past rigid stereotypes in order to better understand and support our autistic children? To dive into this, we speak to Dr Krishna Jadav Carle who explains all the ways in which autism can present in children. She is a developmental paediatrician and Director of ACCESS Paediatric Clinic. In her book, What’s My Colour On The Spectrum?, Dr Krishna introduces the Rainbow Model, a framework to help better understand the huge variety within autism. This is such a valuable episode and we learned so much. We discuss… The diagnostic criteria and categories Dr Krishna is seeing in clinic How autistic nervous systems interpret perceived threats Why are more kids being diagnosed with autism these days? What would a world look like if it was completely supportive of autistic people? The biggest barriers to families getting a diagnosis The stigma around autism and its stereotypes Deep diving into each colour of the Rainbow Model to better understand the huge range of needs of autistic kids Masking and delayed…

This week on the Bumpie Group Chat we dive into the hormonal rollercoaster of being a woman, from Sophie’s IUD removal to Jayde’s period disc recommendations. Our kids are taking us on a walk down memory lane to our old-school Book Fairs. Oh and we need your play date rules, come and share over in our Facebook group! Pearl has said “I love you!” so Soph is taking the win Bedtime battles The ‘head fluffery’ of play dates and sibling dynamics Apple Sleeves has a music video Sophie is off to Harry Styles! And the entire family are tagging along! Bringing your children into your world Sophie’s IUD has been out for a week and she gives us an update Jayde’s menstrual disc hot tip (learned the hard way) Scholastic Book Fair nostalgia This episode is proudly sponsored by iL Tutto and their new Boba Auri Teddy-Fleece Carrier. Grab yours here! And use code BUMP20 for 20% off full priced items at iltutto.com.au. Code valid until June 14 2026, excludes already discounted items, furniture packs and gift cards. Links in…

Terms like ‘the manosphere’ and ‘toxic masculinity’ are thrown around a lot lately and it has many of us worried. How do we raise boys? What does a good man look like? We speak to Dr Billy Garvey, developmental paediatrician and father of three, about his new book and how to raise emotionally healthy boys. Regardless of whether you have a son or not, this episode is filled with parenting wisdom. After we establish that Dr Billy is the intellectual hall pass of half of the BTB team, we dive into… What is a good man and what is our aim when raising children? The data that shows that even from birth, boys are treated differently to girls Emotional nurturing and social conditioning Rough and tumble play as a biological need Scaffolding and teaching social and emotional skills Role modelling affection and consent How do men open up to mates if they then don’t have the skills to support each other? “Your relationship with them trumps everything” The importance of saying sorry (it doesn’t equal weakness) Love VS…

As always, the Bumpie Group Chat is a rollercoaster but we know you’re alongside us for the ride, Bumpies! We vent about our current parenting pickles, we cry with pride about said children then wrap it up by searching for inspo on how to be better parents to our daughters. Wow. We dive into… 7 year olds… wtf? Third child things… we are not okay! We debut Yumi’s first single, Apple Sleeves and it’s a banger Sophie had her IUD removed and discusses the ‘why’ Soph asked TikTok what kept sisters bonded as they grew up and the answers were pretty wholesome Jayde compares life as an only child to now as she raises three daughters We had a rebrand photoshoot! This episode is brought to you by WaterWipes™, the only baby wipes certified skin microbiome friendly by MyMicrobiome. Get yours at Coles or head to waterwipes.com Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the…

We are constantly asked for advice when it comes to tension with in-laws, grandparents, relationships and more. Setting boundaries is easier said than done! To help us help you, we spoke to clinical family therapist and speech pathologist, Claire Barbagallo, all about communicating with the key people in our lives. We discuss… What do you do if your MIL wants to share your children on social media and you’re not okay with it? Shifting from boundaries = conflict to boundaries as a form of healthy communication How to get grandparents on the same parenting page as you Your non-negotiable parenting values Explaining the ‘why’ to grandparents Focusing on the new opportunities that come from a boundary When the boundary needs to be repeated Communicating with our partner in an argument vs sweeping it under the rug Arguments in front of your children - do we address it with our kids? Self compassion and regulation as communication tools How can we help communicate something a bit more subtly? When family or…

Mother’s Day has come and gone and we unpack our thoughts around the day - can we take the wins for what they are? We just want to feel seen! We also jump into… Sophie’s sinking smoothly into Term 2 Shout out to the single and solo mums on Mother’s Day Craft mum realisations and cutting the parenting labels Filling up your cup alongside your child’s feels like a hack Screen time for the win, it doesn’t have to be demonised all the time Sophie watched The Sweetest Thing with her whole family… enough said We share Bumpies hilarious inappropriate song lyric experiences This episode is brought to you by WaterWipes, the only baby wipes certified skin microbiome friendly, by MyMicrobiome. Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group Sign up to our monthly newsletter here for BTS, recommendations, outfits and more. If you’d love to partner…

We speak a lot about finding a village, but what do you do when you’ve moved across the world and find yourself starting from scratch? Kerrene Taylor (@kerrenetaylor) is an American mum living in Western Australia, documenting the honest reality of becoming a mother far from home - without the village most of us assumed we'd have. We discuss… How Kerrene met her now-husband and moved to Perth Moving into motherhood without a relationship with her mum How Kerrene explored remothering herself before having children The term ‘morning’ sickness needs to be cancelled Her birth and postpartum journey as isolation crept in Finding new friends is like dating (daunting!) Becoming diagnosed with PND The spectrum of sleep help Experiencing rage for the first real time and its impact on her relationship A small window into the maternal experience in Australia VS the USA Kerrene’s words of advice for new parents seeking a village Listen to Kerrene’s podcast, the No Village Club where she shares her journey of building a…

he Bumpie Group Chat is back after a two-week break so we have lots to catch up on! We jump straight into… How was Jayde’s girls trip to the USA for a country music festival? The lead up to a girls trip might be even better than the holiday itself An emergency evacuation at StageCoach 🫣 Jayde’s fallen out of love with singer Riley and more in love with her husband, Harry Their emotional couples therapy breakthrough Sophie’s got a threenager on her hands A Mother’s Day hot take - is just saying exactly what you want a win-win for everyone? Tea towels are a girls best friend… Kids and mature song lyrics - how are we approaching this!? This episode is proudly sponsored by Babybee. Discover the brand new Alto pram and explore the full Babybee range at babybeeonline.com Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce) Come say hey over on Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast TikTok @beyondthebumppodcastFacebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group Sign up to our monthly…

Has ‘screen time’ become a dirty word when it comes to our kids? Can we safely support them to use technology that is constantly evolving? There is a lot of fear around screens but it feels overwhelming when they’re such a big part of our lives. We want to remove the shame so we chat to researcher Dr Jo Orlando about how we navigate parenting in a digital world. We discuss… Is screen time black and white for all children? Screens as a tool for connection and communication when you’re a tween/teen Rest or stimulation? Can screens be used for relaxation? Reflecting on how screens are being used rather than time limits Fostering hobbies and activities off screens How our brains are trained to want the constant change of ideas screens offer Is there a point when kids are missing out if they have no or strict screen time? Snapchat and its problematic friendship dynamics Settings, apps and open conversations with your tweens and teens Phone usage for your children and the ‘shopping centre’ analogy The pros and…

Imagine sharing your life on social media every day until one day, your relationship begins to implode. How do you show up? What do you share? Bella Messina is a single mum to 2 daughters, sharing her motherhood journey on her podcast, Tiktok and Instagram. We dive in... Bella shares her journey leading up to her first pregnancy and struggling with HG throughout How her mental health declined but she still gaslit herself into thinking how she ‘should be grateful’ At one point do we feel ‘worthy’ of help with mental health? Bella shares how each day was a struggle but the lifeline that came with sharing this online Receiving a lot of backlash and online hate during a difficult stage of life but the perspective shift that helped her push past it The importance of professional help and therapy Bella’s marriage ended abruptly - how she found out and her immediate reaction as a SAHM with no independent income living with her in-laws Navigating a sudden breakup as a content creator - how do you decide what to…

It’s the final week of school holidays and we have some ups and downs for you, Bumpies! Sophie is still solo parenting while her husband is away and it’s getting old… time to come home Nick! Jayde had a rough time with a hospital visit for her daughter, but will be on the up once she packs her bags (last minute, of course) for a girl’s trip. We chat about… Sophie’s at THAT stage of the school holidays - whimsy has been knocked down a peg thanks to fevers, sleep deprivation and sibling rivalry Jayde’s feeling fried after Mia going in for surgery - there is something so gut-wrenching about seeing your child go under On a lighter note, Jayde is off to the US with a friend this weekend for a music concert! Why do we go into preparation overdrive when we leave our kids with their other very capable parent!? We share some Bumpie’s hilarious and awkward stories about their puberty, sex and dating chats after our episode with Pippin Girl earlier this week Someone has sent in an AITA - should she have let her friend…

You might remember when your parents tried to speak to you about The Birds and The Bees. Or they left a book about puberty for you on your bed one day. Maybe they left a box of pads in the bathroom? Today we speak to Em from Pippin Girl about how to have the awkward chats with our kids about puberty, sex, consent, relationships and more - and do it a little better than how our parents might have done it! We discuss… When and how to start discussing body changes with your children Taking your child’s personality into account when broaching bigger topics The puberty chat - what do we even say? What puberty may look like for boys and girls Preparing your daughter for puberty and her period What questions are students asking in schools? What are they actually wanting to know!? Sex and pleasure Approaching the topic of consent with our kids and how despite awareness, society still has a long way to go Preparing your child for dating and relationships The importance of boundary setting and receiving someone’s no…

We kick off this week’s Bumpie Group Chat episode with a petition for mandatory seasonal Mental Load Holidays. Can you imagine!? Sophie is staying with her parents for the school holidays and she’s finding parenting way more manageable. We also chat about… Is most of the day-to-day of parenting actually made challenging by our mental load, not necessarily the kids themselves? Jayde wants to know what is the etiquette these days when it comes to giving gifts? If you’re attending an adult’s birthday, what is the protocol!? Speaking of celebrating, partying in your 30s hits different. No amount of Hydralite made a difference for Jayde over the weekend. Whether it’s a hangover, exhaustion or a babysitter, we discuss how the cost of a night out is high these days. So, is it worth it? Jayde’s had a UTI and has learned an important lesson Sophie’s back with an exciting update - Pearl has officially ditched the dummy! We chat about a contentious AITA - is it okay to discipline a friend’s child? What is okay and what…

Matrescence. You might have never heard of it or maybe you’ve seen it doing the rounds on social media lately. It’s actually the biggest transition any human will go through in life and it’s reserved specifically for mothers. So, if it’s so massive… why is it so unknown? We speak to Claire Tonti, matrescence activist, filmmaker, singer and songwriter, to learn more. We say it often, but this really is a must-listen for everyone, mother or not! We discuss… What actually is matrescence? And why haven’t we heard about it until recently (if ever!?) The neurological and hormonal changes women experience when they become a mother When did it become a ‘badge of honour’ to try and not change when becoming a mum? How the fight for gender equality meant we had to dampen the importance of parenting The beauty and level-up that we go through as a result of matrescence How educating and empowering women at every stage of life benefits us all Leaning into creativity as a way to process these changes Embracing slowness and…

As we roll into the long weekend, we are both relieved and overwhelmed. We dive into this episode of the Bumpie Group Chat and vent about the collective anxiousness we are all feeling - from the state of the world right now to the endless Easter to-do list plus the race to the finish line of term 1. It’s a LOT! We also chat about… What am I and who am I? Society’s obsession with labelling people and why we can’t do it all Leaning into your school community and how wholesome it can feel “Do you have capacity to chat about my feelings?” Harry’s back and Jayde missed him, but did he miss her? Play! We remind ourselves how important play is, not just for our kids but for us Why does the kids having cavities make us feel like a total failure!?! Bumpies shared their granny habits they’ve taken on in their 30s and it was the laugh we needed This episode is proudly sponsored by Hey Zomi — check out their reusable menstrual disc and new period underwear range at heyzomi.com. You can also find Hey Zomi at a Woolworths…

Have you written a Will? This episode has been *highly* requested by Bumpies so we spoke to Tessa from Lyden Lane to discuss estate planning and future-proofing for our children after we are gone. Yes, it feels confronting but we know we need to adult-up and get it done for the benefit of our family. We discuss… What actually is a Will? What happens if you pass away without one? And is it just needed when one parent dies or both!? Does debt get passed down if it’s not paid off? Boomer wealth, granny flats, intergenerational living and the Bank of Mum and Dad Divorce - does it impact a Will? The toughest part - who will care for your kids!? We were both in SHOCK with just how complex this decision is legally The up front cost of estate planning How superannuation might be an asset you hadn’t considered Tessa shares the voice note she’s leaving behind for her kids - we were not okay! So, where do we begin if we want to set up an estate plan after today? If you’d like to, find out more from Tessa at Lyden…

Bumpies, today really is a mixed bag, so strap in for this rollercoaster. We discuss everything from vaping to religion, if we actually need yearly birthday parties for kids and the most beautiful ‘just you wait’ moments that had us tearing up. We dive into… It’s Week 2 of Harry being away - how is Jayde going this week with solo parenting? The mental load around extra-curricular activities and why it can be anxiety inducing The classic trap of who has it harder and why we probably need to take that straight to couple’s counselling 😅 Possibly controversial, but should we veto yearly birthday parties for kids…? Sophie posted a positive ‘just you wait’ moment on Instagram and the comment section definitely passed the vibe check! We have a new AITA and it’s a Bumpie wondering if it’s okay to try and sway her teenager’s friendships - is it for the good of your child or does it become dangerous territory? What do you do when your child wants black and white answers around family values? Sophie’s daughter wants to…

You have probably seen Jess Urlichs’ beautiful poems on motherhood in your Instagram feed but you might not know much about the woman behind the words. In this episode, we speak to Jess (@jessurlichs) and dive into everything from pursuing creativity to both her and her son’s neurodivergence diagnoses. We discuss… Jess’ current journey navigating her eldest son’s neurodivergence and how that looked for him as a baby How Jess began writing poetry and the poems that went viral Tips for turning your thoughts into poems Jess’ recent diagnosis of OCD and how this differs from the ‘OCD’ cliches thrown around casually in conversation Intrusive thoughts and when they started to control Jess’ behaviour How her ADHD and OCD look now she is outside of the newborn era Jayde shares some of the positives of ADHD, especially through the lens of motherhood Jess shares some excerpts from her latest book - hot tip, you will need tissues! You can grab a copy of Jess’ latest book of poetry, They Bloom Because of You, here.…