ResponseABLE Parenting by Becky Jennings
Becky Jennings
We come to parenting with all the patterns we learned in our own childhood. Together in this podcast, we uncover the roots of our reactivity and grow in education, capacity, awareness, and skills so we will be able to respond vs. react to our children. The beauty of this process is as you become a ResponseAble Parent, the “misbehavior” of your children will lessen, the yelling will fall away and a new level of companionship and cooperation will take its place. Welcome to the journey of ResponseAble Parenting. Take a deep breath in, slow exhale out, and let’s get to work.
Categories: Education
Listen to the last episode:
95% of moms feel guilty. And only 19% of dad’s say they feel guilty about parenting. This episode shines a light on a few reasons why moms tend to feel more guilty than dads.
Guilt can be helpful when we have acted outside of our value system.
Guilt is not helpful when we believe that we are bad because of our actions. When guilt begins to shape the way we look at ourselves and becomes a leading force in our identity then guilt is without a doubt unhelpful.
We have been conditioned as women especially as mothers as to how we SHOULD act. And “should” lives next to shame. And when we don’t operate exactly in that vision that is cast for us by society then we can feel judged, shame and guilty for not living up to the unrealistic expectations that have been presented to us.
As mentioned here is the Guilt Free Mini Course
For $7 you will get 7 videos and journal prompts to begin your journey of removing guilt from your life and parenting!
Previous episodes
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41 - 41. Where does Mom guilt come from? Mon, 13 May 2024 - 0h
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40 - 40. Understanding drives respect Mon, 06 May 2024 - 0h
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39 - 39. 4 buckets to fill in Ourselves Mon, 29 Apr 2024 - 0h
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38 - 38. It Feels Like I am Taking 2 Steps Backwards Mon, 22 Apr 2024 - 0h
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37 - 37. Case Study: How Responsive Parenting raises incredible teens! Mon, 15 Apr 2024 - 0h
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36 - 36. Does “Feeling your feelings” Raise Brats? Mon, 08 Apr 2024 - 0h
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35 - 35. What is “ResponseABLE Parenting?” Mon, 01 Apr 2024 - 0h
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34 - 34. The 4 Buckets to Fill Regularly! Mon, 25 Mar 2024 - 0h
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33 - 33. Our parenting is only as sturdy as our nervous system - Interview with Tanicia Baynes Mon, 18 Mar 2024 - 0h
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32 - 32. Is Respect Just a Performance? Mon, 11 Mar 2024 - 0h
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31 - 31. Why is NO So Triggering? Mon, 04 Mar 2024 - 0h
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30 - 30. Owning Our Part Mon, 26 Feb 2024 - 0h
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29 - 29. You Need To Teach Your Child Respect Mon, 19 Feb 2024 - 0h
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28 - 28. Why Is Empathy So Hard? Mon, 12 Feb 2024 - 0h
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27 - 27. What Are We Willing To Feel? Mon, 05 Feb 2024 - 0h
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26 - 26. The Meltdown Wont STOP! Mon, 29 Jan 2024 - 0h
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25 - 25. When To Teach A Lesson Mon, 22 Jan 2024 - 0h
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24 - 24. Parenting The Child In Front of You Mon, 15 Jan 2024 - 0h
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23 - 23. Parent Teacher Conference Progress! Mon, 08 Jan 2024 - 0h
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22 - 22. “Egg Time” - Mommy Hormones Mon, 25 Dec 2023 - 0h
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21 - 21. Listener Question - Should I Allow Social Media? Mon, 11 Dec 2023 - 0h
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20 - 20. Listener Question - How Do We GET Our Children To Do Something Mon, 27 Nov 2023 - 0h
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19 - 19. My Messy Morning Mon, 13 Nov 2023 - 0h
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18 - 18: How Feng Shui Can Support Your Parenting Interview with Patricia Lohan Mon, 30 Oct 2023 - 0h
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17 - 17: Default Parents Aren’t Allowed To Be Inconvenient Mon, 16 Oct 2023 - 0h
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16 - 16: Childhood Beliefs Around "Goodness" Mon, 02 Oct 2023 - 0h
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15 - 15: How to respectfully teach your children respect Mon, 18 Sep 2023 - 0h
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14 - 14: Cycle Breaking: What Happens When Your Village Doesn't Approve? Mon, 04 Sep 2023 - 0h
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13 - 13: Gentle Parenting is Not Just For "Gentle Kids" Mon, 21 Aug 2023 - 0h
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12 - 12: Aggressive Kids Mon, 07 Aug 2023 - 0h
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11 - 11. How Do We Make a Meaningful Repair? Mon, 24 Jul 2023 - 0h
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10 - 10. Windows and Mirrors Mon, 10 Jul 2023 - 0h
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9 - 9. Listener Question - How to Manage Disrespectful and Defiant Behavior Mon, 26 Jun 2023 - 0h
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8 - 8. Reconnect With Your Teen Through Curiosity (Interview with Reece Anderson) Mon, 12 Jun 2023 - 0h
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7 - 7. P.O.O.P. Mon, 29 May 2023 - 0h
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6 - 6. Listener Question - How do I Deal with my Son’s Picky Eating? Mon, 15 May 2023 - 0h
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5 - 5. How Do We Become Less Reactionary Towards Our Kids? Mon, 01 May 2023 - 0h
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4 - 4. Parenting in the Wake of Another School Shooting Mon, 17 Apr 2023 - 0h
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3 - 3. Our Kids Are Our Dysregulated Dumping Ground Mon, 03 Apr 2023 - 0h
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2 - 2. Understanding Our Default Patterns as Parents Mon, 03 Apr 2023 - 0h
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1 - 1. How It All Began Mon, 03 Apr 2023 - 0h